Immaturity

The news smashed my face this morning, like a rustic dagger.

How could pride and prejudice are so damaging?

Mostly of marital problems are caused of miscommunications or misunderstandings. Why I discounted, infidelity? For me it’s very political in nature. It defies human logic.

More often than not, the marital problems if not patched-up at the earliest often led to emotional and psychological tortures, then separation. The worst of its kind, the casualties are children that do not deserve the misery of a broken family.

Well, I am a married guy—and am not at all naïve when it comes on marital infidelities.  Marriage collapses, yes, but one can’t just simplify the reasons why it happens. Even love and trust are not assurance in the survival of marriage.  I believe pressures melt trust and love (and what I mean of pressures—they are jealousies, temptations, misunderstandings, finances, etc). And when both partners have inappropriate egos, pressures are extremely hard to straighten-up. It is the pride that makes marital problems worsen as there is no one to give way, to accept faults, and usually ends up on blaming games. When harmony lacks in marriage—there is no unity, how can you keep the marriage then? 

Obviously there are unresolved marriage issues that are supposed to polish out, but if partners are not willing to settle the issues, who would help them to settle the indifferences? It’s end game.

Why we are so idealistic? Isn’t it hard to understand that nothing works out if we are fault finders, just like in marriage, you can never attain perfection, only how to make your marriage life better.